We’ve been here a little over a month now, and I feel settled in. We have a routine, we’ve found grocery stores and the parks, we know how to ride the bus. Life here is nice. We do have an interesting housing situation-- we are actually in shared housing. That means we have a bedroom in a 4 bedroom house, and all the other rooms are shared. Since we have been here we have had several roomates (this is mostly used by the university as temporary housing), and actually after the first few days of panic (there is no way we can keep the girls well behaved enough!!) it has been fine. We did not expect this-- it was a last minute thing done by the international office-- but the location and safety cannot be beat. The house is on campus, so Daniel can come and go easily. This also means the whole campus is the girl’s back yard, and they have claimed several “treehouses” (mostly trees with interesting roots they play around). Also, there is a housekeeper (!). To keep us from being too spoiled, I’ve told her we will clean our room, but I haven’t scrubbed a bathroom since I’ve been here :) . It actually makes me more conscientious, though. I’m much more careful about doing our dishes right away and making sure the girls clean up all their crumbs.
Living with others has been good for us, although not without some challenges. I’ve seen some gaps in the girl’s manners that wasn’t apparent when we mostly kept to our own house. They are VERY interested in everyone else’s coming and goings, but our house mates have been tolerant of the constant inquiries of “where you GOING? What you DOING?” We are still working on the concept of personal space with others, although it actually took about 3 weeks for the girls to be ok with me in another room. I felt like a mama duck with her ducklings for a while, I would trip over them every time I moved. The hardest part has been just having one room that is really ours-- if someone is napping, or if the girls are at each other's throats and need to be separated, there really isn't anything I can do. We will only be in this housing through July, and then will move to Samoa for at least a semester, so we can work with it for now.
We found a great modern jungle gym in a park on the water, with lots of slides and swings and climbing. I love watching the wonder in the girls’ faces when they encounter something new. They have impressed me so much with how quickly they can figure out new situations, it is amazing how adaptable small kiddos are. Miss M rode an escalator and elevator for the first time at the airport, and now she is a pro. When we go to the mall, all she wants to do is ride up the escalator and down the elevator. She knows how to push the button for the cross walk and crosses like a NYC native. Both girls also now recognize McDonalds…. there is one close to our house which we have visited for ice cream and the playground :). You would never know a few weeks ago they were chasing goats barefoot across a field. My goal for our time here is to do as many things as we can that aren't available in Belize, including things like dance lessons for the girls. I also stumbled across some Chinese cooking lessons offered by the Chinese cultural center, and have gone a couple of times. No one speaks much English beyond "Good!" with a thumbs up and smile, but that seems to be enough for cooking lessons. It's a lot of fun.
Pardon the recycled Instagram photos for this post, I'm having some trouble getting my Mac on the wireless here, and have to borrow Daniel's computer for now. I've got a few more posts written, and I figured I would just try and post more rather then worry too much about pictures. More soon!
I'm using the "the toys live here" line for my 3.25 year old. It's been going strong for years so I'd say your chances are good.
ReplyDeleteThanks for writing Cathleen - miss you all!
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